tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8466797836225520430.post891225844281816202..comments2024-03-10T01:18:18.094-08:00Comments on Elise Fallson: Is This Customary For You Too?Elise Fallsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14734537117333738468noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8466797836225520430.post-47857177749782452732012-09-12T12:50:23.291-07:002012-09-12T12:50:23.291-07:00indeedy!
variations: http://www.themostesshostes...indeedy! <br /><br />variations: http://www.themostesshostess.com/blog/2-latest/10-the-bread-salt-honey-tradition.html<br /><br />of course, no edict exists you can't start your own trads ;)laughingwolfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08873675614347328116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8466797836225520430.post-59619415987802257282012-09-12T02:40:20.560-07:002012-09-12T02:40:20.560-07:00Cherie: It is a lot of fun especially when you hav...Cherie: It is a lot of fun especially when you have a good group together. But the clean up afterwards...that's another story. (:<br /><br />Richard: It's sad when we get to the point where we can't enjoy the company of others without the itch to hurry it up. It seems like we're in work mode all the time and can't disconnect from our fast paced work habits even during the moments when we're supposed to relax and have a good time. <br /><br />Mina: How interesting! Funny how things can be perceived so differently depending on your background. Can I at least bring flowers to your house the next time you invite me over? (;Elise Fallsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14734537117333738468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8466797836225520430.post-286605032989623862012-09-11T20:23:41.745-07:002012-09-11T20:23:41.745-07:00I don't often (or ever, really) go to dinner p...I don't often (or ever, really) go to dinner parties, so I can't be positive, but I don't think it's unusual for guests to show up with a gift for the host (which can often be shared with guests - a bottle of wine, maybe a box of chocolates).<br /><br />For the Portuguese (and here I have to stress: my family), bringing food/wine to someone's dinner event is an insult. It's like you're telling your hosts you don't count on them to provide you with good or sufficient grub. Though if a couple of families are getting together for an informal dinner, both will probably make/bring stuff (or cook together, even).<br /><a href="http://minalobo.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Some Dark Romantic</a>Mina Lobohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10173895884776280826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8466797836225520430.post-38787001165017394272012-09-11T16:10:43.558-07:002012-09-11T16:10:43.558-07:00I've only been to one dinner party in America ...I've only been to one dinner party in America that was anything like that, and it was a four or five course meal put on by an Italian immigrant. Far too much food for me. It was nothing like what I was expecting. I think Americans are too much in a hurry for this kind of social activity. We tend to want to get to the point and move on. writing and living by Richard P Hugheshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03814139767151989286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8466797836225520430.post-5418029452158080602012-09-11T15:34:17.177-07:002012-09-11T15:34:17.177-07:00I've heard of the custom and have seen it on T...I've heard of the custom and have seen it on TV, but I've never been to a party where it was customary to do so. I think it's neat, though. :)Cherie Reichhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16663147386014122939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8466797836225520430.post-7669196169147516652012-09-11T12:42:53.273-07:002012-09-11T12:42:53.273-07:00Michael: Oh I am LMAO, but also sorry to hear you ...Michael: Oh I am LMAO, but also sorry to hear you have to deal with a mooch. Sometimes you just got to be blunt when you invite folks, tell them, "hey, bring some beer before you come over." or what ever. After a while, they'll catch on if they're not too dense. (: <br /><br />lawolf: I love the housewarming ritual with the salt and bread and booze. I've never heard of that before but I do like that kind of stuff. I have to remember to do this in my second life... (; And yeah, you do have to be careful of people saying "Oh, you don't *have* to bring anything..." which means you really do need to bring something. Tricky rascals...<br /><br />Elise Fallsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14734537117333738468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8466797836225520430.post-8403758234069793132012-09-11T10:49:57.191-07:002012-09-11T10:49:57.191-07:00i have always brought something, knowing they bull...i have always brought something, knowing they bullshit you when they say 'don't bring anything'... happened to me... once... that was enough<br /><br />a charming custom of some northern europeans: first visit to a new home, like a housewarming [tis de rigueur], everyone brings a bit of salt and some bread; salt to sprinkle around the 4 corners of the home, to keep evil spirits out; bread, to evoke fertility - can you guess the bread's meant for a young couple's new home? :P ...usually a bottle of some kind of booze is included, even for the young'uns ;)<br /><br />other things brought are foods/desserts of all kinds, left behind if not all consumed, some unsampled....laughingwolfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08873675614347328116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8466797836225520430.post-17865110007454858692012-09-11T08:58:20.674-07:002012-09-11T08:58:20.674-07:00No this isn't familiar to me. Here in Utah, pe...No this isn't familiar to me. Here in Utah, people only visit when they have a "reason". For example, this guy I know only comes over to mooch off the fact that I pay for cable and he wants to see "The Walking Dead". So he'll call enroute to let me know he's coming, show up five minutes before the show, crash and watch it, complain about the commercials, and then leave right after.<br /><br />I'm actually going to tell him to stop coming by this fall.<br /><br />But my point is that people in "America" that I know, have no manners, are crude, crass, expect things and never bring sh*t.<br /><br />I love the French way. It shows culture and appreciation for people, unlike the low-class bums I deal with on a daily basis.Michael Offutt, Phantom Readerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10557969104886174930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8466797836225520430.post-2277805645226393232012-09-11T08:04:23.939-07:002012-09-11T08:04:23.939-07:00You guys are all welcome to come! And you don'...You guys are all welcome to come! And you don't have to bring anything. (=Elise Fallsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14734537117333738468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8466797836225520430.post-54632599521545318312012-09-11T07:13:45.873-07:002012-09-11T07:13:45.873-07:00Wow! I'd like to come to a dinner party at YOU...Wow! I'd like to come to a dinner party at YOUR house. Dinners in my neck of the woods is pretty much what Sara said--ask what can I bring, bring it, eat, talk, go home. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8466797836225520430.post-9076258628243657822012-09-11T06:20:13.680-07:002012-09-11T06:20:13.680-07:00I agree with Sally. If it's a friend, I'll...I agree with Sally. If it's a friend, I'll call them and ask what I can bring.... and we'll probably stay later. If it's someone I don't know as well, I'll probably just bring a bottle of wine.Jessica Salyerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00227752359369023249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8466797836225520430.post-50040393287417884702012-09-11T04:31:01.876-07:002012-09-11T04:31:01.876-07:00For family we would ask what to bring, for friends...For family we would ask what to bring, for friends we don't ask but always turn up with one or all of the following: bottle of wine, pack of four beers, non alcoholic bottle of something (for the unlucky driver), chocolates and flowers. Sometimes we've gone past midnight and sometimes they've left before. If the mood and chat is flowing it can go on later. Great times. Sallyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14090018804016223955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8466797836225520430.post-64485105832276453992012-09-11T03:49:17.649-07:002012-09-11T03:49:17.649-07:00Here you always ask "What can I bring" T...Here you always ask "What can I bring" Then you bring what they say. Sometimes someone will say you don't need to bring anything, so you don't. Dinner usually doesn't last that long though. Show up, eat a huge meal, talk and digest for a bit then head home. I realize most of the people I know though have kids and jobs and are pretty casual so I don't know what happens in other situations. S.P. Bowershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09746614009206426805noreply@blogger.com